Dear Momsie and Pops,
I can't believe I'm writing this letter to you after the longest time.
Now I am married and living in my own home away from you guys, everything changes.
I no longer hear the naggings about how my room is so messy and how you can't stand looking at it (actually, I still have to hear this from my husband pfft).
I no longer hear the morning shoutings asking us to wake up if not we gon be late for work. Momsie forever fast forward the time at least 15-30mins earlier just to scare us awake. Biao.
I no longer hear the screamings of THIS IDIOTIC PEPPER SO STOOPS WHY SHE PEE AND POO ALL OVER THE KITCHEN FLOOR IM GONNA STUFF HER DOWN THE RUBBISH CHUTE!
I no longer hear the orders of asking me to sweep and mop the floor every weekend when I'm home. (You're gonna be hearing all these now fartssss)
Not to say that I miss all that, I definitely don't hahah.
But it's just a little weird not being able to see my family every day.
The good thing is we live about 10mins drive away from each other so it's definitely easy to meet up!
As per my wedding speech, I truly think I'm the child who gives you guys the least worries ever since I was born and while growing up. I sleep damn easily and for long hours which is why I don't cry and scream my head off as often as a baby.
I'm never a rebel, I was mostly a goody two shoes. Definitely opposite from my sister. MUAHAHA.
I started working soon after I graduated all the way till now and am surviving fairly okay. Welcome a pay raise anytime though boss hahaha
But all these were not made possible if not for my parents working hard all these years to give us a proper and beautiful roof over our heads, provided and ensured we have decent education, always made sure we are always well-fed with healthy home-cooked food almost everyday (I truly cannot take outside food now, wayyyy too oily and salty), bring us on holidays (either long or short) whenever they can, give us enough pocket money and a little extra if we wanted to buy something out of our usual spending range, waking up extra early in the morning to make our breakfast/lunch, doing most of the housework for us etc etc.
When I was younger, I never really wanted to spend time with my family and will often choose to hang out with my friends over them. Reason being was because I see them almost everyday! Why do I need to see them again during my free time???
However, as I grew up, I realized blood is truly thicker than water. No matter what happens, no matter what kind of misgivings you have, the only people who truly stick around are your family. Nothing can ever change that.
So now, I find myself gravitating towards more family gatherings, both immediate and extended.
I will try and do my best to be a better daughter and bring you guys on more holidays. By bringing, it mostly means using my money to let them travel the world with their friends most probably. HAHAH. My parents seriously have a more havoc social life than me, no lie. But we should really try and go on more family holidays!
Okay, I shall end my letter here and get my ass back to work.
Love,
Your child who enjoys zero attention from you guys. The lesser the better.
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Sunday, December 02, 2012
Letter 2 : My (Current) Crush
If I was much younger, say...in secondary school. I will think of someone almost instantly for this letter. But since I am no longer THAT young girl (not that I'm old now anyways. TSK,), I actually have to think of who to address this letter to.
My crushes change rapidly nowadays. Mostly are people you see on the TV. HAHAH. I'm superficial yes, BUT WHO CARES. So I'm going to write about my current crush now. A character on this Korean Show, every Mon-Fri, 11pm - 12pm on Channel 8.
Dear Manager,
Although I have seen you a few times, I still didn't get the chance to actually know your name. That's because everyone calls you Manager, or something I don't really remember. Hahaha. I wasn't attracted to you at first sight, because you don't look THAT handsome anyways. HEH. And you were always being mean to Huaxin just because she's an ajumma (auntie in Korean). I had no idea all your nastiness would eventually lead to love.
It's nice how much care and concern you shower on Huaxin, even though she's a divorced woman with a kid and an annoying ex-husband. You protect her with your life and you treat her like she's the most precious treasure in the world. I didn't realize you were that tall until you stood next to that ah gua husband of hers and grabbed him up by the collar. That was one scene I can never forget. How romantic and chivalrous of you to threaten him. Hahaha.
Another scene I keep replaying in my mind was when you came out of the house with your unbuttoned shirt. WHY WERE YOU HIDING YOUR HOT BODY ALL THIS TIME IN THAT SUIT WHICH MADE YOU LOOKED OH SO DASHING!? Anyways, your body was something all girls AND guys would lust after.
After watching your show, I'll often fantasize about a young eligible bachelor going all out to win my heart even though I'm already not as attractive as before. Seriously, does it ever happen in real life? I wonder. Although I don't want to be like Huaxin, divorced cuz her husband had an affair outside, it doesn't hurt to have a young and hot admirer does it now? TEEHEE. Almost every woman after they turn 30 will not say no to someone like that. I mean you can flirt what right. Don't need to get involved. HAHAH! OMG, I'm horrible. Okay okay, crush only. Does not mean anything.
I'll stop being sucha love-struck fool. But I'll still sleep at 12am every weekday just to see you baby. HAHAHA!
With Lots of Love And A Little Bit Of Lust,
The noble girl who sacrificed sleep for you causing her to be damn tired next day at work
My crushes change rapidly nowadays. Mostly are people you see on the TV. HAHAH. I'm superficial yes, BUT WHO CARES. So I'm going to write about my current crush now. A character on this Korean Show, every Mon-Fri, 11pm - 12pm on Channel 8.
Dear Manager,
Although I have seen you a few times, I still didn't get the chance to actually know your name. That's because everyone calls you Manager, or something I don't really remember. Hahaha. I wasn't attracted to you at first sight, because you don't look THAT handsome anyways. HEH. And you were always being mean to Huaxin just because she's an ajumma (auntie in Korean). I had no idea all your nastiness would eventually lead to love.
It's nice how much care and concern you shower on Huaxin, even though she's a divorced woman with a kid and an annoying ex-husband. You protect her with your life and you treat her like she's the most precious treasure in the world. I didn't realize you were that tall until you stood next to that ah gua husband of hers and grabbed him up by the collar. That was one scene I can never forget. How romantic and chivalrous of you to threaten him. Hahaha.
Another scene I keep replaying in my mind was when you came out of the house with your unbuttoned shirt. WHY WERE YOU HIDING YOUR HOT BODY ALL THIS TIME IN THAT SUIT WHICH MADE YOU LOOKED OH SO DASHING!? Anyways, your body was something all girls AND guys would lust after.
After watching your show, I'll often fantasize about a young eligible bachelor going all out to win my heart even though I'm already not as attractive as before. Seriously, does it ever happen in real life? I wonder. Although I don't want to be like Huaxin, divorced cuz her husband had an affair outside, it doesn't hurt to have a young and hot admirer does it now? TEEHEE. Almost every woman after they turn 30 will not say no to someone like that. I mean you can flirt what right. Don't need to get involved. HAHAH! OMG, I'm horrible. Okay okay, crush only. Does not mean anything.
I'll stop being sucha love-struck fool. But I'll still sleep at 12am every weekday just to see you baby. HAHAHA!
With Lots of Love And A Little Bit Of Lust,
The noble girl who sacrificed sleep for you causing her to be damn tired next day at work
Saturday, March 12, 2011
Letter 1 : My best friend
Dear Best friend,
I actually don't know who I am writing it to specifically just cuz I think I don't have a best friend. I used to have one in primary school but she moved away and we somehow don't contact much anymore. Whenever I read chicklit novels, there's bound to be a best friend to the female lead. And that best friend will always do whatever it takes to make her friend happy. I have always wanted one like that. A friend to stay by me through thick and thin and to share whatever happiness and joy that's going on in my life. I want to call my best friend right after something awesome happened between my crush and me and tell her EVERY SINGLE DETAIL without her asking for it. I want to tell her when I'm having problems with my family or feeling just the slightest bit down and complain to her like no tomorrow and she will totally understand how I feel and listens to my nonsensical rants. I want to go do fun and interesting stuff with her which most people usually won't do at last minute's notice. I want to call her when I have absolutely nothing to do and just put the phone to my ear even when neither of us are talking. Many other things I would love to do with my best friend. If I have one, that is.
I always thought it was easy to find a friend like that. But growing up, I realized it's not. People change and so do their thinkings. What might seem fun to one, seems lame to another. They get caught up in their own lives and don't really seem to be interested in others. It is a little sad in a way, to see reality like that.
But that being said, I am very very grateful for the girls I have in my life. Although I don't really tell them every single detail in my life to them and they sometimes have to ask to get it out of me, but I tell them pretty much everything. And we do silly things together and hang out with each other often. I especially love just chilling at someone's place even when we're not doing or saying anything. Just enjoying each other's company in silence. The most important thing is that they make me laugh like a mad woman whenever we're together. I'm glad we have pretty much the same interests and watch about the same shows and our humor level are the same. I guess I do not need a best friend after all. I'm happy with you guys!
我 is 非常爱你们！！
I actually don't know who I am writing it to specifically just cuz I think I don't have a best friend. I used to have one in primary school but she moved away and we somehow don't contact much anymore. Whenever I read chicklit novels, there's bound to be a best friend to the female lead. And that best friend will always do whatever it takes to make her friend happy. I have always wanted one like that. A friend to stay by me through thick and thin and to share whatever happiness and joy that's going on in my life. I want to call my best friend right after something awesome happened between my crush and me and tell her EVERY SINGLE DETAIL without her asking for it. I want to tell her when I'm having problems with my family or feeling just the slightest bit down and complain to her like no tomorrow and she will totally understand how I feel and listens to my nonsensical rants. I want to go do fun and interesting stuff with her which most people usually won't do at last minute's notice. I want to call her when I have absolutely nothing to do and just put the phone to my ear even when neither of us are talking. Many other things I would love to do with my best friend. If I have one, that is.
I always thought it was easy to find a friend like that. But growing up, I realized it's not. People change and so do their thinkings. What might seem fun to one, seems lame to another. They get caught up in their own lives and don't really seem to be interested in others. It is a little sad in a way, to see reality like that.
But that being said, I am very very grateful for the girls I have in my life. Although I don't really tell them every single detail in my life to them and they sometimes have to ask to get it out of me, but I tell them pretty much everything. And we do silly things together and hang out with each other often. I especially love just chilling at someone's place even when we're not doing or saying anything. Just enjoying each other's company in silence. The most important thing is that they make me laugh like a mad woman whenever we're together. I'm glad we have pretty much the same interests and watch about the same shows and our humor level are the same. I guess I do not need a best friend after all. I'm happy with you guys!
我 is 非常爱你们！！
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